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Seduction skills

 
#1 Seduction skills
30/05/2007 16:23

Wannabe

As a nerd who works long hours and who has no social skills or friends, what is the best way to meet a nice lady? Serious answers please, no "jokes" thank you.

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#2 RE: Seduction skills
30/05/2007 16:39

Braddddd to Wannabe (#1)

try 'singles nights' or 'putting yourself online'

Don't forget, you a not a nerd, rather a studly consultant...

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#3 RE: Seduction skills
30/05/2007 21:27

Taxman to Wannabe (#1)

Um why under seduction skills..... Most Consultants i see are usually with malasian type women, makes me think of Ting Tong out of Little Britain...

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#4 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 01:58

Pants to Taxman (#3)

Firstly, acquire social skills; secondly, acquire friends; thirdly, lose the words "nice" & "lady".

Just as seriously, a small majority of people meet sexual partners at work. Frequent contact and a relatively long time to get to know one another is a definite plus. Alternatively, people you knew at school / college / training courses are a good source of partners or at least friends of potential partners.

Failing that, I know 2 people who belong to tennis and / or squash clubs and the entire membership seems to revolve around getting off with each other. This may be a simplistic approach, however.

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#5 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 03:11

Anon to Pants (#4)

Go online. The women are actually better looking and not the gold digging sort. Either that or join a local book club - we all know that they are about s*x and not books!

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#6 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 09:24

Wannabe to Anon (#5)

Where to go online exactly?

Book clubs - good idea but the ones I've seen consist of about 4 old folk at the library

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#7 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 09:35

Don Juan to Wannabe (#6)

Bar. Go bar. Get drink. Look. See sexy girls. Take deep breath. Go sexy ladies. Open mouth. Ask questions. Buy drinks. Show interest. Ask 'So how does that make you feel?'. Home. Take home. Undress. Do the no-pants dance. Job done.

I guess what I'm trying to get across is that you need to cast a net, using your personality to trawl through the catch and find one you like. There is no substitute for this, believe me.

Girls like men who are happy to talk to them, and moreso happy to listen and show that they understand and care. Once you get to that point they are putty in your hands.

Trust me. I've played with alot of putty in my time and this is how I did it. It can be daunting but you really do have to play the numbers game to begin with, this will teach you that knock backs are nothing to get upset about and will also teach you which lines work and don't.

Always go fishing with a mate, firstly you need someone to play wingman and occupy your targets minging mate while you drop your bombs and secondly you can treat it as a game and rejoice in each others successes or take the p over the failures!

And before the barrage comes back; don't think that I don't know that this is what you ladies do also!

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#8 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 10:49

Pants to Taxman (#3)

Firstly, acquire social skills; secondly, acquire friends; thirdly, lose the words "nice" & "lady".

Just as seriously, a small majority of people meet sexual partners at work. Frequent contact and a relatively long time to get to know one another is a definite plus. Alternatively, people you knew at school / college / training courses are a good source of partners or at least friends of potential partners.

Failing that, I know 2 people who belong to tennis and / or squash clubs and the entire membership seems to revolve around getting off with each other. This may be a simplistic approach, however.

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#9 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 16:44

JC to Wannabe (#1)

Hi. I enjoy arranging social gatherings. Let me know more about yourself, i may be able to help

JC

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#10 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 17:12

KITT to Wannabe (#1)

Show them your Gold Card

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#11 RE: Seduction skills
31/05/2007 20:54

anon to Wannabe (#1)

Given the use of terms like "seduction" along with "nice lady", "gold diggers" seem your best bet.

Try Boujis. Just tell them you're a quant at Blackstone, rather than a desk jockey at Cap Gemini - they can't tell one geek from another anyway.

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#12 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 10:20

TongTong to anon (#11)

Me love you long time mister; pay me many dolla.

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#13 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 11:55

Bothered to KITT (#10)

Oh Gold cards are soooooooo 90s...Amex black is the way forward.

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#14 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 12:06

Ron to Bothered (#13)

Learn how to play yazz flute. It worked for me.

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#15 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 12:18

Hannibal to Ron (#14)

Try mail order brides - you'll get a gold digger but at least you can select which gold digger you want.

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#16 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 13:36

Mincs to Hannibal (#15)

Try chatting to Miss W from the Case study question thread (29900).

She's a saucy minx.

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#17 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 15:00

Peter to Mincs (#16)

Here's 2 cents from moi a Paris ;-) OK, did you ever wonder why so many brilliant young guys in consulting or any other respectable professions don't get the women they deserve? It's because they're all the "good on paper" types! Women want to be thrilled, excited, surprised and NOT meet predictable nice guys on their way to become partner in the next 10 years - i.e. if you start talking about your job and the 100B LBO you're involved in, anything after the 100B DOESN'T matter to them (if she's attractive, chances are she hears those lines ALL THE TIME) - they don't want to hear about it. My fiancee is an ex-model - you'd be surprised how many chicks fall for complete idiots, Ferrari-driving bankrupts, F$£% anything on legs types > why? They got BALLS! They're entertaining.

So what can people with normal lives do about it? First of all, be ORIGINAL - i.e. don't stand there at the bar being the Nth guy offering to buy a drink - ask her to buy you one!

I certainly don't feel qualified to give serious advice, but check this out for starters - it sounds lame, i know, but the guy has some VERY good points!

http://www.datingclass.com/dating/use-cocky-and-funny.shtml

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#18 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 15:09

A Mars A Day... to Peter (#17)

Where's Claire when you need her? I'm sure she could help advise the geeks from a woman's perspective.

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#19 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 18:43

frustrated to A Mars A Day... (#18)

As a female, mind you an attractive one, I get quite pissed seeing how the really smart and successful guys end up getting all the dumb girls around. It is the Peter type of guy I am talking about (I am assuming that he is smart here). I mean how much respect can you have for a woman who all she managed to do in her life was to starve and model some clothes around (if lucky)? First of all, if you want strictly nice ladies, whatever you mean by nice, go for prostitutes. If you want real women, look around at your workplace or client site. The women who can manage their lives on their own and who are equally smart can be found but in those places. If you want just a nice one to please you physically, make you feel superior and butcher your hard-earned money, well....it is easy. All above posts gave you tips on how to go about finding one.

And maybe someone can comment on my question. Why do smart and successful guys like stupid women? What is wrong with women who are equally smart and successful?

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#20 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 19:18

A to frustrated (#19)

smart and successful dont mean sugar when the lights go out. A pert b*tt, a flat stomach and firm b**bs do.

To get women go to Koko and do the Koko! Those in the know understand where I am comin from!!

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#21 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 19:37

frustrated to A (#20)

Yet another idiot lacking self-confidence to deal with real women. Oh, well...for your information there is smart and successful women who have all the superficial things you mentioned. Yet men run away from them as soon as they open their mouths and say something intelligent. Well, at least, jerks of your kind do.

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#22 RE: Seduction skills
01/06/2007 20:03

frustrated to frustrated (#21)

And I forgot to mention to you A that a somewhat roundish belly is the epitome of female sexuality. You must be some analyst kid, not ripe enough to appreciate real women. Still judging them by what you see in magazines. Why am I wasting my time answering you anyway...ok, time to go home. I am still waiting for some feedback from real men by the way.

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#23 RE: Seduction skills
02/06/2007 09:50

Eej to frustrated (#22)

can't believe I missed this thread, this really is my forte.

step one, find a girl you love, step two she falls in love with you, step three you kiss and hold her nightly.

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#24 RE: Seduction skills
02/06/2007 14:45

Ed to Eej (#23)

The principle is spot on, although technically the roles tend to work the other way around, which is probably where the original poster is stumbling.

Perhaps the question should be "How do you get someone to love you when you're unloveable?"

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#25 RE: Seduction skills
03/06/2007 00:57

A to Ed (#24)

Not wishing to hijack this thread but I have a message for <b>frustrated </b>-

<br>http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Just-Not-That-Into/dp/1416909532

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#26 RE: Seduction skills
03/06/2007 09:13

3rd party view - this email came round.. might help to A (#25)

A store that sells new husbands has just opened in **New York City**, where

a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance

is a description of how the store operates:

You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of

the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may

choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next

floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor

the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs.

She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

"That's nice", she thinks, "but I want more."

So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.

"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and

Help With Housework.

"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"

Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with

Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign

reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this

floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to

please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.*

*

PLEASE NOTE:

To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store

just across the street.

The first floor has wives that love s@x.

The second floor has wives that love s@x and have money.

The third, fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited *

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#27 RE: Seduction skills
03/06/2007 09:15

long time... to 3rd party view - this email came round.. might help (#26)

I am now happily married (so she tells me) with a baby but back in the old days, I seem to remember "go ugly early" being the order of the day. You can then pass it off as a competitive pull when you walk out with the missing link and win a tenner from your friends!

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#28 RE: Seduction skills
03/06/2007 11:15

Another Anon to long time... (#27)

Missing link? Not sure what you mean Sir. Please elucidate.

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#29 RE: Seduction skills
03/06/2007 13:10

museum worker to Another Anon (#28)

"missing link" is used to refer to a part human part beast creature from the era somewhere between mankind and the ape

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#30 RE: Seduction skills
04/06/2007 10:06

malaver to Peter (#17)

You will occasionally meet women who will insist that they only want „someone normal“, or „an emotional, caring guy“. Do not believe them. They will ignore such men and their advances and jump at the first cowboy who comes in vicinity.

One can only get some satisfaction from seeing them getting involved with the cowboys and subsequently abandoned, cheated on, etc.

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#31 RE: Seduction skills
04/06/2007 16:19

JC to malaver (#30)

Seems like a lot of negativity on this site. Plenty of nice women out there that just want honest, grown up adults for a LTR. I know many. Get a work life balance and make yourself do social things, otherwise life is very lonely

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#32 RE: Seduction skills
05/06/2007 10:47

Same boat different gender to Wannabe (#1)

Women consultants have the same problem. I'm early 40's quite sexy and can't meet a decent bloke. Just read a book called Men where are all the decent ones and the author spent 10 months trying find a decent bloke she found 1, 1 mind you in Egypt!!!!

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#33 RE: Seduction skills
05/06/2007 11:20

mac to Same boat different gender (#32)

Stop reading books and get down your local tennis/ running club/ gym/ cooking school.

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#34 RE: Seduction skills
05/06/2007 13:32

Hot Chick to Wannabe (#1)

Try online, the whole match.com type of thing - may not be the love of your life, but can be damn good fun, and will at least let you learn/practice social skills. Cruise dating is a laugh, and less frantic than speed dating. Forget the gym - no-one ever talks to strangers there. Try a club with active sports life/bar, eg rowing, tennis, running or something, and go to all work events.....met my man at a seminar!

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#35 RE: Seduction skills
07/06/2007 08:32

MeMo to Hot Chick (#34)

Ok I don't have time to read the entire thread right now, and have only read parts of it but nevertheless here are my 2 cents worth.

A) There aren't enough good ways to meet a prospective partner

- The vast majority of people go clubbing in the hope of meeting a partner but the drunkeness and noise means its not the best place. We then attend all sorts of random things pretending we're interested in learning salsa or whatever, but really it's just to try and meet someone.

In fact in a lot of offices if you look carefully you can see all the singletons are really looking for love at work.

Online dating is therefore in a way, quite refreshing in that everyone admits "hey I'm looking for someone". I think it will continue to become big business in the future, or some sort of online-real life hybrid. However beign a sceptic, I'm inclined to say it currently attracts shy men and men who just want to sleep around.

(I haven't had any experience of searching for love online though so that's a totall subjective view).

B) Why successful men go for blonde bimbos

Men are visual creatures, and men generally like to be in control. Though it would be interesting to know given a choice between a supermodel and a supermodel with a PhD, which men would choose.

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#36 RE: Seduction skills
07/06/2007 08:49

Anon to MeMo (#35)

...supermodel with a PhD..

somewhere on the 7th floor, then..?!?

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#37 RE: Seduction skills
08/06/2007 19:38

anon2 to Anon (#36)

Earn 200k a year, or gain 2 inches.

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